Farooq Kathwari 
          Lahore University
            of Management Sciences (LUMS) Convocation 
            Lahore, Pakistan 
            December 24, 2003 
          Mr. Babar Ali, Esteemed Guests and Graduating Students: 
          It is a great privilege and honor for me to be
              with you at this important event. I would like to congratulate
              all the graduates and their families on this momentous occasion.  Also,
              my congratulations to Mr. Babar Ali for his leadership in developing
              this institution and to all the faculty and staff in making this
            a world-class educational institution.   
          Yesterday Mr. Babar Ali gave me a tour of your
              institution and later in the evening I participated in the Awards
              Ceremony.  It is
            very impressive what has been accomplished. 
          I am privileged to share my thoughts with present
              and future leaders who must play a great role in shaping the debate
              for the future.  I
            strongly believe that the responsibility of leadership is to shape
            the debate - to project the right attributes - whether in a business
            enterprise, in civil society and even in our religions. If the leadership
            does not take this initiative of setting the priorities and the debate
            the vacuum is filled often with dire consequences. 
          Lahore has a great
                history being on the crossroads of interacting with many civilizations
                and ideas from several thousands of years. There are few places
            in the world that can match the history and culture of Lahore. 
          For
              me personally coming back to Lahore is part of a cycle of a journey
              that began in 1950 when at the age of five with my mother and other
              siblings we crossed the Wagah border to Lahore coming from Srinagar,
              Kashmir where our family lived. We had left behind my seven year
              old brother and an eight year older sister as they were in school.
              We had come to join our father who a year earlier had come to Lahore
              for a two week permit and was not allowed to return to his home
            as the authorities in Srinagar canceled his permit. He decided to
            take a leadership role in Azad Kashmir.   
          We thought we were here for a short visit and that Kashmir would
            be reunited. Those were challenging times. We lived for ten years
            in Murree, Muzzafarabad and Rawalpindi, often visiting Lahore in
            winters.  
          At age of fifteen we again from Lahore crossed the border and journeyed
            to Kashmir to be reunited after ten years with our siblings and our
            family.  
          I lived in Srinagar, Kashmir for the next five
              years going to college and participating as a student activist
              in many protests demanding dignity for the Kashmiri people.  I also spent a great deal
            of time playing cricket and being the captain of our team.  I
            learned a lot about teamwork, the issue of human rights and focus
            during those years.   
          At the age of twenty I once again crossed into
              Lahore one week before the 1965 India-Pakistan war and on the fateful
              day of the start of the war I was here in Lahore and saw the perils
              this great city faced. Lahore welcomed me with its usual hospitality
              and after the end of the war I was given traveling documents to
            leave for the U.S. for the next part of my life journey.   
          As you can see Lahore has been very much part of my life journey
            and it is with much affection that I return to this historic city
            and your well-respected institution. 
          I mentioned that I believe the main responsibility of leadership
            is to shape the debate for their enterprises and societies. Debates
            and priorities are always shaped by leadership and in case leadership
            fails to take this opportunity and responsibility the vacuum gets
            filled with by people with louder voices and the most extreme agendas,
            often with projection of hate, oppression, intolerance, injustice
            and maintaining the status quo. 
          I have the privilege of being the Chief Executive officer of one
            of America's well known and well respected business enterprises.
            Ethan Allen is a 72-year old vertically integrated company from design
            of product, to manufacturing in U.S. and other countries, of marketing
            and retailing of home furnishings throughout North America and in
            several other countries including China.  
          When I took charge in mid 1980's Ethan Allen
              needed a major reinvention. The products were no longer relevant,
              the marketing and manufacturing needed a major overhaul. The challenge
              was to change the image of this well established enterprise with
              over a 90% brand recognition.  And
            as often happens the management at the company were comfortable with
            their status and felt there was no need to change.  
          Reinvention means taking a fresh look at the
              problems and challenging assumptions of the past.  In going
              through any major reinvention or new ideas one has to understand
              and plan that ideas will generally be first rejected, than tolerated
            and finally there is a chance of acceptance.  
          Reinvention is key to continued vitality of any
              institution and reinvention takes place either unconsciously, which
              is most of the time, or consciously which is obviously the preferred
              method. I have also believed that relying only on hope is not a
              good method.  Another
            important factor to keep in mind that with the rapid changes in the
            world in every field the cycle of reinvention is becoming shorter.   
          A first major step in reinvention is that a core leadership
            group needs to be formed which accepts and embraces the need for
            change and helps in shaping the agenda and the debate for the rest
            of the organization. In the case of Ethan Allen I established a 40
            member Advisory group of our leaders known for their leadership quality,
            entrepreneurship and well respected by their peers. This group was
            key to helping transform Ethan Allen during the last fifteen years
            and has played a vital role in marketing the ideas and taking the
            leadership initiative for change. 
          I also believe it is the responsibility of leadership to establish
            the overall environment and guidelines under which the enterprise
            will operate. In other words every institution is defined by the
            culture that the leadership creates.  
          As you all know, much has been written about
              management and leadership principles. Early on I was very much
              impressed by a letter of instruction that Hazrat Ali, in the seventh
              century, had written to governor designate of Egypt. This letter
              of instruction inspired me to establish our own set of “instructions” which
              we call Leadership Principles at Ethan Allen and form today our
            most important guidelines in conducting our enterprise. 
          Among the important instructions and advice given
              to the governor designate by Hazrat Ali were that he must remain
              on constant guard against his most important enemy that was himself,
              he cautioned him not to get carried away  on his importance
              and to control his ego. Another piece of advice was that a Leader
              is known by the advisors he, and today also she, surrounds themselves
              with. For instance, if advisors are tyrants they will likely lead
              to tyranny, if they are just they will likely lead to justice and
            if cowards they will likely inhibit leaders from courage. 
          The Ethan Allen Leadership principles have helped
              us to create a unique culture which has developed a highly motivated
              10,000 associates. Let me briefly describe these ten Leadership
              principles which you will recognize are all associated with common
              sense and good governance.  These
            principles are available on our website at:  www.ethanallen.com 
          1. Leadership: Provide Leadership by example. 
          2. Accessibility: Be accessible, supportive, and recognize the contributions
            of others. 
          3. Customer Focus: Understand that a leader's first responsibility
            is to the customer. Communicate this philosophy to all associates
            and encourage them to make customer service their first priority. 
          4. Excellence and Innovation: Have a passion for excellence and
            innovation. 
          5. Self-confidence: Have the self- confidence to empower others
            to do their best. 
          6. Change: Understand that change means opportunity and do not be
            afraid of it. 
          7. Speed: Maintain a competitive advantage by reacting to new opportunities
            with speed. 
          8. Hard Work: Establish a standard of hard work and practice it
            consistently. 
          9. Prioritize: Establish priorities by clearly differentiating between
            the big issues and the small ones. 
          10. Justice: Always make decisions fairly. Justice
            builds confidence and trust, which in turn, encourages motivation
            and teamwork. 
          Developing principles or instructions is only
              the first step.  Our
            challenge was to make it part of our culture.  During the last
            fifteen years we have made it a point that these principles are discussed
            in small and large meetings and many of our senior management are
            asked to write about the implementation of these principles as part
            of self-evaluation.  A major portion of our incentive compensation
            depends on following these principles. 
          Most enterprises spend a great deal of effort
              on external marketing.   We
            developed an intensive, internal marketing program to continuously
            sell our principles to our associates. Our credibility depends on
            practicing what we preach.  Many enterprises become victims
            of their own propaganda rather than the practitioner of it.  The
            last principle which is justice is rarely used in business terminology
            yet we know that most inefficiencies and conflict takes place in
            organizations when there is a feeling of unequal treatment.   Throughout
            history a small band of motivated people have accomplished wonders.   
          Our philosophy is also that it is better to be
              good and strong rather than big for the sake of bigness.  We operate and focus on only
            one enterprise.  We have stayed away from the temptation to
            buy others as leading one enterprise and making it excel is a major
            commitment.  I also believe that good governance is also good
            for profits.  At Ethan Allen we have consistently outperformed
            our peers in profitability.  In addition, in 1989, I had the
            opportunity to form a group to purchase Ethan Allen, keeping it as
            a private company for five years and, in 1993, taking it back public.  In
            1993 the Company had very high debt, almost no equity and today the
            Company produces annually close to $200 million in cash flow with
            a market capitalization of $1.5 billion and no debt. 
          Our success to a great degree is attributable to developing
            a great motivated team, the basic fundamentals of which I learned
            in Kashmir as a captain of our College cricket team. 
          I mentioned that Ethan Allen had a 90% brand recognition
            in the mid 1980's. It was a known brand but was losing the most important
            attribute of a brand, that is being a preferred brand. Being known
            is no guarantee of being preferred. The challenge for leadership
            in every aspect whether a business enterprise, a social institution,
            a nation or a religion is to create a preferred brand. 
          A preferred brand must have positive attributes and than on a proactive
            basis those attributes need to be projected repeatedly. This is where
            leadership comes in and establishes their main job to practice and
            project the positive attributes. 
          Let me turn on another subject that is important to me - the situation
            of Kashmir. I am pleased about the recently announced steps to normalize
            relations by India and Pakistan and offer a window of opportunity
            to move forward.  
          There is a greater realization in India and Pakistan
              that they need to settle the Kashmir dispute for their well being
              and that of the region. This sentiment has long been felt by Kashmiris
            on both sides of the Line of Control, never more so than now.   
          The conflict over Kashmir has been the chief source
            of tension between the two great nations and has resulted in tremendous
            costs for the region - mounting death toll, impact on economic growth,
            military buildup, rise in extremism and psychological stress, especially
            in the Kashmir region itself. 
          Seven years back I helped found a group in the
              U.S. called the Kashmir Study Group.   I was deeply concerned over the tragic situation
            in Kashmir, and the three parties were engaged in a no-win situation.  The
            group consists of twenty five members with political, diplomatic
            and academic backgrounds with great deal of expertise in South Asia.
            The objective was to help shape debate by moving people away from
            the old rigid stated positions of the parties and to consider new
            ideas.  
          As it has done so, the Kashmir Study Group has
              won the attention and respect of Pakistanis, Indians, and Kashmiris
              alike as a serious, innovative and objective organization dedicated
              to finding ways to move forward to a Kashmir settlement.  I
              have had the opportunity during the last several years to interact
              with the leadership of Pakistan, India and leadership on both sides
            of Kashmir.  
          I am gratified that today there is a greater  opportunity
              to move forward and the realization that compromises will be required
            by all parties. The current initiatives are being taken by the leaders
            of the region and as I have stated it is the responsibility of the
            leadership to shape ideas that will help in the resolution of this
            problem in a manner that is peaceful, honorable and feasible.  
          I have conveyed to all the parties a principle that we try to apply
            to the conduct of our own discussions. To provide a basis for fruitful
            negotiations, dialogue must be characterized by three features. One
            is the absence of coercion, with all parties agreeing to treat the
            others as equals. A second requirement is for participants to respond
            with empathy, to think someone else's thoughts and feel someone else's
            feelings. The third requirement is that dialogue must be concerned
            with bringing forth people's most deep-rooted assumptions in order
            to overcome misunderstandings. There must be genuine desire for peace. 
          I would like to also briefly touch upon another
              subject that is of utmost importance to all of us.  Today, there is a great
            deal of focus on Islam and we know the major perception, especially
            in the west, is that Islam is a religion of violence and intolerance.
            There is great need and an opportunity to project the positive attributes
            of this great religion.   I do not think that Islam needs
            reform or that Islam is inconsistent with democracy and freedom or
            women's rights. In my view, the leadership in the Muslim world needs
            to focus on the attributes that are hallmarks of Islam - of mercy,
            graciousness, tolerance, innovation, education, moderation, justice,
            and most importantly that Islam is a religion of reason.  
          It is critically important that the leadership  realizes
              that the above attributes are attributes of success for an individual,
            a business enterprise, a nation and the world at large. The projection
            and the implementation of these attributes is the responsibility
            of leadership. 
          It has been a great privilege and pleasure to
              have been here today and to share with you many of the principles
              that have guided me in business and in life.  I firmly believe
              that they are as valid for the rising generation of Pakistani leaders
            as they are for leadership in the United States and elsewhere. 
          Thank you all once again.   I am delighted
              and touched to have had this opportunity to revisit a country and
              a city that played an important part in my young life and have
            so generously welcomed me back many years later.           
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